I don't know if I am just missing the boat completely on this one but I can't seem to find where to edit my profile or my avatar anywhere... It's not under options and I didn't see any help on finding this stuff so I am completely lost

Top of the screen you should see your IGN click that and it will take you to your profile edit sceen.

Dang I looked everywhere else, the IGN on overview, options, and other stupid places but it never occurred to me that it would be up there... Thanks

No problem everyone needs help every now and then glad that I can be of some use.