Once again, this isn't the venue to be dealing with deep personal issues. You're just asking for trouble.

If you want to resolve something deeply personal, get your frigging *** off the computer and change your frigging life for the better. No one is going to hand it to you here and you are the only one who can make the change. Deal with it. Get on with it. Grow from it. Put it behind you.

Or simply wallow in your self pity and live a life of torment. You're the only one who has the ability to break the chains.

I think in Ame's case, that was something he felt everyone should know about...

Slash wrote:Once again, this isn't the venue to be dealing with deep personal issues. You're just asking for trouble.

If you want to resolve something deeply personal, get your frigging *** off the computer and change your frigging life for the better. No one is going to hand it to you here and you are the only one who can make the change. Deal with it. Get on with it. Grow from it. Put it behind you.

Or simply wallow in your self pity and live a life of torment. You're the only one who has the ability to break the chains.

I think this place is not here for others to see but for people to let out all those bad feelings and feel better so they can get on with life and not be burdened by all those unpleasant thoughts and ideas.

Slash wrote:Once again, this isn't the venue to be dealing with deep personal issues. You're just asking for trouble.

If you want to resolve something deeply personal, get your frigging *** off the computer and change your frigging life for the better. No one is going to hand it to you here and you are the only one who can make the change. Deal with it. Get on with it. Grow from it. Put it behind you.

Or simply wallow in your self pity and live a life of torment. You're the only one who has the ability to break the chains.

Slash,

Honestly I'm can't say I'm happy at these comments. This forum was made for the use of getting anger, sorrow, and rage out. If Ame wanted to post his actual story...then that's his choice. Then, I just simply apologized for being an ***. If he wants to talk about it with people in this community - then so be it. Sure, it may not be the best idea in some peoples' opinions - but maybe he'd like to share. Is there something wrong with this?...

I'm just simply stating what I believe and am, in no way, trying to put off being rude or offensive.

Eclipse55 wrote:I think in Ame's case, that was something she felt everyone should know about...

She?

My bad.

Slash, who better to trust then complete strangers who you will never meet and can have no impact on your life besides what they tell you, and if you know a way to change the past, please share. If not, this topic was venting and it would be better to keep it at that.

AmeOkami wrote:Slash, who better to trust then complete strangers who you will never meet and can have no impact on your life besides what they tell you, and if you know a way to change the past, please share. If not, this topic was venting and it would be better to keep it at that.

There is no known method of changing the past. But to dwell on it is just plain stupid, counter-productive, and self-destructive.

And Gale, I don't really give a crap if people don't like my opinions on something like this. Seeking advice on serious personal issues in an obscure gaming forum??? To me, it appears no one is trying to resolve a problem but garner drama for posting it. Poor pitiful me! My life ***** and I can't deal with it! EMO EMO EMO. Jeebus. I've been on the internet since there was such a thing and been a forum moderator and a site owner for almost 15 years. Hard truth is only accepted by those few who truly wish the problem to end. But the majority simply wallow in their sorrow and spread it around for all the world to see.

Once again, step away from the keyboard and take a good look at the person in the mirror. If you don't like what you see, change it. Only you have the power to put the pain in your past along with the memories that generated it. Otherwise, deal with living with it. But don't go attention w**** and indignant when you don't like the answers.

Otherwise, meh.

Once again, step away from the keyboard and take a good look at the person in the mirror. If you don't like what you see, change it. Only you have the power to put the pain in your past along with the memories that generated it. Otherwise, deal with living with it.

I agree with you here Slash, if you REALLY don't like who you are go ahead and try and find someway to change it. Find something that takes your mind off the past and brings you back to to the present. Find a sport... take a run... just live in the present and not in the past. For some Ame for instince it might be harder but they just have to forget other people mistakes and find a passion. Dwelling on the bad things in life will only arise new problems.

Slash, occassionally you have posted with comments that seem to wonder at why you are regarded as a stuckup *** sometimes.
That, right there, was why.
The people posting here are looking for consolation and advice. We cant change things for them, but we can help them to figure out what the right answer is. If you dont like it, GTFO. Simple as. Your commentary is not helping.
Ever had a good friend? Not implying you havent, but if you have, youll know sometimes you ask those people for advice. I have a problem buddy and Im not sure what to do. What do you think?
Other times, you cant talk to that friend. Maybe theyre involved. Maybe youve been fighting. Maybe its just too damn embarassing.
For that, there is your good friends on the internet. We will most likely never meet you, and you can get rid of us simply without having to worry about the consequences. The internet is a great forum for many things.
I dont agree with people whining away forever more unchanging, but if anyone ever wants to ask for my advice, Im willing to listen and help as best I can. My only problem comes when my advice is consistently ignored and the voicing of the problem takes the aforementioned whining tone.