The main reason for the attacks were usually resources and i figured that was the reason and sinc im not that great at understanding the game i figured that was the reason they usually attacked and this just seemed like a good idea at the time. I do appreciate the advice it helps a little bit

I have an idea for the players in the extreme universe the idea is if you want to attack me pm me first and i will set up a planet that you can attack crap out of and in return you leave my main planets alone.